Coffee with the County - They’re Watching You
If you’ve been following this column for very long, you know that I have two young kids–a son (8 years old) and a daughter (3 years old). One of the very painful parenting seasons we are in is helping our son to learn that his actions are often duplicated in his sister–for the better and the worse. Teaching my son that he is a leader to his sister is complex, because he is still navigating the complexities of his own behaviors and emotions. Even more so, he is the oldest cousin on my side of the family, so when we’re all together, the troop of young ones typically follow suit after the oldest. I’ve talked with my son more than once in which I said, “Remember that they’re watching you.”
If there is any lifelong lesson I continue to meditate on, it’s that one. I remember as a teenager being called out as a leader, and having mentors and teachers make that same comment, whether intentionally or broadly. “There will always be others who are watching you.” These “others” observe your actions, your intentions, your communication, your relationships, and in general, how you hold yourself. I remember that the intricacy in that lesson as a young adult was the assumed pressure that came with it–how will I teach others through my own actions and words? Will I reverberate a message that directs them in the wrong direction, or the right one?
Now, I don’t believe the intention behind these words is ever one that suggests we should intensely and obsessively worry about the perception others have of us. However, I do think there’s a lesson there that many of us can forget in our day-to-day lives.
I will bang my LaGrange County drum louder and louder to say that we are so fortunate to have the character and community we possess here. Within our businesses and industries, we have collaborative, hardworking, bigger-than-myself people who seek success and growth for the betterment of not just themselves. We have a generational support system which encourages our youth to make a life and grow a business here. We have a variety of industries that provide an even wider variety of opportunities. This is LaGrange County, and we have one of the best settings in the state (in my humble opinion)!
But there’s always an opportunity to remind ourselves of how we’re setting the stage for the next generation. How are we preparing them and providing the example for success, growth, and sustainability? This week, allow me to give a few examples of how you can cultivate culture, character, and community now for tomorrow’s workforce and LaGrange County:
- Commit yourself to lifelong learning. The best thing you can do to set an example is growing yourself. Take a class. Attend a workshop or conference. Read a leadership or business book. Complete a diploma, degree, or certification. Listen to a podcast. Others will learn to grow by watching you do it yourself. (You can do at least half of these things by visiting the Chamber’s website.)
- Commit to being a leader who develops leaders. Take care of your team by investing in them as people, and as up-and-coming leaders themselves. Consider how you’re taking care of them financially, professionally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. How can you invest more? (And remember, this isn’t just about those of you who own a business or run a team. How can you do this with the people around you?)
- Commit to business or organizational growth. How are you taking what you have, and investing and molding it into something even better? This could include succession planning for the future, scaling your operations, increasing your workforce to provide more local jobs, or auditing your operations to find ways to shave expenses and bolster revenue. (This is a great reminder about the resources our Chamber has for your business to grow and succeed!)
- Commit to community. If you are a business owner, how are you leveraging your resources to better the community around you? (This is a great time to remind you about the benefits and connections you can find through Chamber membership!) If you aren’t a business owner but are reading this anyway, consider how you can leverage your own resources–time, talent, and dollars–to impact the community around you.
- Commit to the future of our county. Tomorrow’s world isn’t just about doing something today. It’s about the mindset and position in which we approach it. Our actions today must reflect a commitment to a sustainable LaGrange County. This means joining boards, volunteering time, or giving resources in order to provide a space where our youth wish to live, work, and enjoy for years to come. You can help do that by getting involved today–in county development, education, public health, community development, the list goes on and on.
I’ll be honest–the next time I tell my son that his sister is watching, I will remember this column, and it will probably give me a bitter taste on my tongue. It’s convicting to me. Am I committed to the same standards I put on my son, but on a larger scale? Am I willing to live and lead in a way that reflects this belief–that others are watching?
What we do today isn’t just for us today; it’s not just about self-fulfillment, whether we recognize it or not. What we do impacts those around us, both now and for the future. So…what will your LaGrange County legacy be? Don't forget that they’re watching you.