Coffee with the County - Big Moments
I remember it like it was yesterday. I was sitting alone in a quiet room, on a lone chair in the corner. I watched the fast-paced outside world continue to move through the glass doors, as I sat there waiting for one of the most significant moments of my life to unfold. It was my wedding day, and it was only minutes before my dad opened the door to grab my hand and tell me it was time to walk down the aisle to my soon-to-be-husband.
That moment was a culmination of months of preparation. I was never fully prepared for what it took to plan for a wedding. There were photography sessions to carry out, a wedding cake to choose, a wedding dress shopping day to experience, colors to pick, wedding party to notify, invitations to be sent, and a venue to secure (amongst, you know, other things). It was a big undertaking, but this OCD, organizational nerd was ready for the task! (Seriously, I had a 2-inch thick, 3-ring binder with pictures to prove it…nerd is an understatement!)
As I have taken on the role of Executive Director of our Chamber, I have learned that, because our communities are so rural, we don’t have quick access to many venues which hold masses of people. When my husband and I began formulating our guest list, we quickly realized we would need a church and venue large enough to host 300+ people. We were hard pressed to find the right location, for the right date, and the right people, but we did.
Another thing that has cemented within me since taking on the role of Executive Director is how fortunate we really are to be home to such beautiful landscapes and backdrops for the “big moments” of life, like a wedding day. I’ve also been witness to significant days in the lives of our people–baby showers, graduation parties, company events, and more. At times, I have fallen prey to the “there’s nothing to offer here” mentality when it comes to gathering spaces. But, in this role at the Chamber, I have learned the true value found in pausing, considering, asking, and identifying some out-of-the-box gems we are home to here in our communities.
February is the “month of love” (thanks, St. Valentine), but it’s also commemorated as National Weddings Month. As you consider the moments in your life which may cause need for a gathering space, I invite you to consider choosing local establishments and backdrops for your big moments:
Small Gatherings (Showers, Parties, and Shin-Digs, 0-50ish people)
- Our local churches often offer a fellowship hall or gym for rent. Check out the First Presbyterian Church of LaGrange, the Howe United Methodist Church, the LaGrange First Church of God, Shore Church, Mt. Zion Lutheran Church, and South Milford Church of Christ, just to name a few.
- Have you ever considered one of our beautiful, local golf courses? Take a visit to Heron Creek or Cedar Lake Golf Course for your next event.
- Other local event spaces for small gatherings include The Garage Community Center, The Carney Inn, the LaGrange County Public Library (LaGrange Branch), and the Van Buren Hotel.
- Need grub at your event? Reserve the back rooms at Five Star Pizza, Topeka Pizza, or Woodsider Diner!
Mid-Sized Gatherings (Workshops, Large Parties, and Company Picnics, 50-100ish people)
- The LaGrange County Parks Department has excellent venues, many of which come equipped with a kitchenette. These include Dallas Lake Park, Pine Knob Park, Delt Church Park, David Rogers Park, and Maple Wood Nature Center.
- Food is the biggest driver for many of our mid-level venues, and their menus are delicious! Consider picking the Shipshewana Auction Restaurant, Ben’s Soft Pretzels, the Blue Gate Restaurant, the Carriage House, Tiffany’s Restaurant, Cook’s Bison Ranch, and Yoder’s Homestyling Cooking.
Big Events (Weddings, Conferences, and Retreats, 100-300+ people)
- For a beautiful wedding space, consider looking at any of these top, local picks: Lakeside Occasions, Farmstead Inn, Expo Barn, and Event Pavilion, Blue Gate Garden Inn, and Sturges-Young Center for the Arts.
- For your large events, conferences, and retreats, consider: Michiana Event Center, Brethren Retreat at Shipshewana Lake, Camp Lutherwald, Blue Gate Garden Inn, and Farmstead Inn and Conference Center. (Remember LaGrange County for the associations, clubs, and groups you’re a part of who host large-scale conferences and retreats!)
- Did you know that, at times (depending on the time of the year), our local schools will rent their spaces? Cafeteries and auxiliary gyms can create great spaces for events!
The point of this week’s article is to (as always) think local. LaGrange County may not be a metropolis, home to 15+ venues of various sizes. But I’ll continue to shout from the rolling, horse-covered hills of our communities that LaGrange County has a lot to offer. (And if I’m feeling extra-feisty, I’d even argue that LaGrange County has MORE to offer than those large urban settings!) For life’s “big moments,” consider how you might make the day as special as it can possibly be, right here in LaGrange County, because thinking local makes a difference.